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Frequently Asked Questions on Rightmate.net

Questions About Rightmate.net & Dating Safety Tips

Rightmate.net is not owned by World Conquerors Christian centre or Bishop Climate Ministries, Rightmate.net has Chose to co-operate With this Ministries on basis of To receive advice and guidance in on Helping Single people on online Dating, To create a place where friends, members , and partners of this ministry could meet , talk , fellowship and also for marriage. To Bring ministers of the Gospel to offer Advice and counselling online to help many single people. And especially to provide a safe place for Christian to meet away from other worldly websites. By this Rightmate.net will use all the funds and the profit that it makes through membership to support and finance the Sinlges and marriage seminars, conference and summits that these ministries will Hold anywhere in the world. so as you join rightmate you are helping yourself and the Gospel
Online dating safety tips on Rightmate.net

Internet dating sites are a great avenue to meet new people who are looking for the same things you are. Like anywhere, pubs, clubs, parties or even just out on the street, you need to be aware of your own personal safety and we want to help you out as much as we can when you start out your journey into online dating. As long as you take necessary precautions this should be a safe and enjoyable experience for yourself and those you interact with online. Below are a few other guidelines for you to keep top of mind.

1. Always protect your privacy. When using an online dating site, do not give out personal information such as where you work, where you live, or the email address you use most often. A good tip is to create a ‘web based’ email account (such as Hotmail, Yahoo Mail, G Mail) specifically for online dating that way if you don't want further chat with a certain individual they will not be harassing your online chat or email account you regularly check. Do not let someone pressure you into revealing any information you are not comfortable giving out. PLease, Please Dont Give anybody your Home phone number Or your Mobile Phone ,Unless you are sure about it and please confirm it with your pastor

2. Be careful when first meeting someone. Under no circumstances should you meet them at their house or give out your address. We recommend you meet in a public place first or even take along a friend to ensure you are extra safe. If you are not comfortable at any time then have no hesitation in leaving. If you are having an enjoyable time though, just keep your mobile handy and get a friend to call now and again to check in and make sure you are ok. Have a code with your friend if you need to bail at any point. We suggest you tell a friend that you are meeting someone for the first time and where and when you are meeting. Please make sure you inform your Pastor or Your Clergy about your date, so he can pray with you and give you more guidance.

3. Trust your instincts. If the warning bells are going off in your head it's probably best to get out of the situation as quickly as possible.

4. Make sure they are who they say they are. The word 'misrepresentation' is something people can do with online dating sites. They may use words such as curvy when they mean overweight, in their 30s when they mean 40s and so on. You may want to try to ensure you aren't encountering someone who is not really who or what they say they are by using a webcam chat service. There is nothing worse than really liking someone only to find out they have been deceiving you. (The above suggestions are no guarantee that someone is genuine and you should make you owns judgments)

5. Beware of scammers. If a gorgeous blonde is asking for you to check out her adult dating site or seems to be soliciting, right there you should smell a big rat/ i mean big problem. If they are asking for money or say they need help do not reply to the message and email the help desk directly. We will investigate it further and you save yourself the potential hassle of getting swindled or harassed to join another dating site.

Please undesrstand we try as much as we can to prevent scammers, please fill free to forward any information you fill suspicious, and we wil let you know that it its genuine. we have Ministers, and security advisers online just to help you , e-mail them your concern and they will get back to you with the proper advise and the measure to take e-mail admin@mobilechapel.net
6. Be your own mediator. We, here at Rightmate.net , do our best to ensure that Rightmate.com is a safe and friendly environment to make contact with others and have a great dating experience. Ultimately however you are an adult and should take personal responsibility and necessary measures to ensure your personal safety where ever you are and whatever you do in life.

Online dating can be the best type of fun, just keep these points in mind and you should alleviate a lot of potential problems in future. Happy dating and God Bless! Remember Pray at all times, keep on asking for guidance from your Pastors, Bishop and leaders, being a christian doesnt't mean your are stupid

Running an online dating or a social networking site is a very specific kind of business with its own ‘highs and lows’. One of the pitfalls both site owners and members have to be aware of is online dating scam. Briefly speaking, scamming is swindling someone for financial gain. When it comes to online dating sites – ’someone’ is usually a single man (almost never a woman) searching for his destiny in the World Wide Web. He is usually trusting and unsuspecting, which makes him almost a 100% confirmed candidate to fall for online Internet fraud. Since scam is not something new in the world of online dating industry, there are tons of articles on the Internet describing ‘red light’ symptoms indicating that you are being fooled, and suggesting solutions on how to avoid such traps. People read them, become more educated and careful… and they stop trusting online community sites. In order to make our website a secure place for acquaintance and entertainment, you should know how scammers typically act, what tricks they use to swindle dating site members, and obviously how to ‘catch’ such impostors before they cause any harm. Below you fill find some common scammers’ fraud schemes description. As they say, ‘forewarned is forearmed’. There are three generally known online dating scam types: a ‘Telephone scam’, a so-called ‘Russian Bride scam’ and a ‘419 Nigerian scam’. Telephone scam ‘works’ pretty easy. A scammer gives you his/her phone number and asks you to call. You do so, which seems pretty logical if you are unprepared for a negative result. You hear an automatic voice machine (sometimes even a live person). You hang up. You get a phone bill that makes you stiffen in surprise. What is the trick? Scammers use so-called ‘premium rate’ phone and fax-back numbers usually starting with 190. The cost of a call to such number can be about $5 per minute or even higer. One more telephone fraud scheme involves a scammer asking you to dial 90# and hang up the conversation (he/she will definitely provide you with a trustworthy reason why you should do that). As soon as you follow the instructions, the cheat will get access to making long-distance calls using your telephone balance. This 90# scamming technique is no longer popular these days (since telephone communications have become more advanced and difficult to hack), and initially it was targeted for business and governmental numbers (requiring to dial 9 or 9-0 to access an outside line). But still, you should keep it in mind. ‘Russian Bride scam’ is very typical for online dating sites, so give it proper attention. Here is how it usually works. Imagine that you are registered on a dating site or a social network. You are lonely and dreaming to find a soul-mate, who is beautiful, young and naive. And one day you receive a message from a profile that looks very similar to your dream. The only drawback is that the girl who sent it lives in Russia (Ukraine, or one of the other former USSR countries). The message would usually be written in broken English, but have vague content anyone would like. Such letters typically start with a brief description of a potential bride’s personal qualities (such as being honest, loving, not mercenary etc), and of how much she was impressed with your profile. She will promise to send her photos in case you are interested. And most likely you will receive pictures of a model looking just too good to be a real person. In some cases there will be a real girl on those pictures (and they will look more natural). The only problem is that she has nothing to do with the love messages you receive. No doubts that her photo was stolen from the Internet. But let’s get back to your correspondence. Once you start taking serious interest in your new friend, ’she’ will let you know about her feelings for you. Of course, she is in love. You’ve been chatting for only a week or so? You have never met or even talked to each other on the phone? Well, there are no barriers for true love, and you were definitely meant for each other – this is what she will tell you. Then the most interesting part starts. This girl from a country where there is no job, and winters are too cold will want to come and see you, because her love for you is so strong. But she will need some money to get her visa done (maybe about $300). Once you send it – she will definitely need more…. There can be hundreds of reasons: booking tickets, sick relatives, telephone and Internet connection bills (she can’t imagine even a day without communicating with you!) and so on, and so forth… She will never reveal her bank account details, and will ask you to send funds via some money transfer system. Finally (better sooner than later), you will understand that you are being fooled. But by that time you might become broken-hearted and a few hundred dollars poorer. ‘419 Nigerian scam’ named after the section of the Nigerian law pertaining to fraud unifies several methods of advanced fee fraud. It includes lottery scam, bank loan scam, romance scam and many other kinds of scam (if you are interested, you may check them here http://www.419hell.com/Nigerian_Scam_Baiting/Types_of_419_Scams.html). I will tell you about the specific dating or romance scam. As a rule, you will receive a letter from a profile with an attractive picture. She or he will not be so pushy at first. Following one of the fraud schemes, a scammer will tell you that he/she actually lives in the US, but is currently working abroad… say, in Nigeria. Your communication with such scammer may last for a couple of months or even up to a year before a standard process of sucking out your budget starts. A fraudster will become your friend and make you believe you can trust him. But one day something will definitely happen – your ‘friend’ will completely run out of finance just a week before the salary, or he will get to a hospital (or even to jail), he will need to buy a ticket, cash the money order or save a dying aunty who needs an urgent operation…. By the time the cheat asks you for money, your vigilance will most likely be completely lulled, as scammers are very good at psychology, and they know tons of ‘it-sounds-like-truth’ stories. Once you send the money – you can forget about it. Most likely, the scammer will disappear too… unless he feels that he can ‘milk’ your wallet for a bit longer. These were the typical Internet fraud schemes applied on online dating sites by scammers, and earning millions yearly to the ones using them. As an online community site owner, you can add your share to the hard work of fighting against Internet criminals by making your site free from scam and thus, safe and reputable. In my next article I will introduce a few easy ways to prevent (or get rid of) scamming on your site using tools provided by our site Soft ware